Why develop this habit of ‘Being Quick to Hear’? Firstly, to prioritise hearing what is being said, over what we would say; immediately opens the door to a greater knowledge and understanding of what is being communicated.
Secondly, it is an excellent way to add value to relationships, especially those closest to you. One of the deepest needs we have as human beings, is the need to be heard. The innate desire to be truly understood.
So here is your challenge. The very next conversation you engage in ‘Be Quick to Hear’. Don’t be thinking of your response, or objection, or even maybe, taking offence. Setting aside all distractions, focus on what is being said. What is this person communicating to you. What is it they need you to know and understand. Remember, to Listen is to Love…
The Healthy Mind Coach 